My family was incredibly supportive from the time I expressed wanting to go to college; from the time I was accepted, until I graduated from Wichita State University. They were my cheerleaders!
I think the hardest adjustment for me was transitioning and remembering college is about time management, work-life-balance, and practicing healthy self-care mentally and physically. The challenges I had to overcome was making adequate time to study and finances. I had to learn how to study, ask for help and utilize resources on campus such as the tutoring services.
My greatest strength is the ability to build relationships and be engaged. I was very social then and now; I enjoyed meeting new people and being involved. It is a blessing and a curse because it is easy to get involved; a curse because it is easy to become too involved. College is work-life-balance.
My advice for First Generation Students is do not be afraid to ask questions in and out of the classroom, get involved in student clubs and activities, and take advantage of all the free stuff on campus. I wish someone would have told me that college is about the journey and make meaningful relationships along the way with your peers, faculty, and staff members because you never know when you will need someone be a reference for you. Also, remember, work-life-balance matters, before you know it you will be graduating.
Please remember that college is not a do-it-yourself project. There is a whole college community willing and waiting to help you. Do not be afraid to ask questions, ask for help and utilize your resources. Be willing to accept the “hand-up” when the olive branch is extended. Also remember free is for me and have fun during the journey!